{"id":610,"date":"2023-01-29T22:26:31","date_gmt":"2023-01-30T06:26:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/?p=610"},"modified":"2023-01-29T23:01:12","modified_gmt":"2023-01-30T07:01:12","slug":"yet-another-affair-dinner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/?p=610","title":{"rendered":"Yet another affair &#8211; dinner"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"Yet another affair - coffee\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/?p=602\" target=\"_blank\">Previous<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In addition to coffee dates, there were a lot of references to having dinner (although it looks like they weren&#8217;t able to have many dinners together).<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s interesting here is Jack; his suggestions for dinner are so casual, that it feels like Andrea has given him an impression that she and I are all but legally divorced. He knows we live together (with Niki &amp; Britta), but he never asks along the lines of &#8220;can you get away&#8221; or &#8220;is Mark around?&#8221;. It&#8217;s as if him regularly asking Andrea &#8211; a married woman &#8211; out for dinner is an entirely reasonable act. If Andrea has misled him, that should come out if\/when I&#8217;m able to speak with Jack. But it also relates to other deceptions that Andrea has made to Jack, which I&#8217;ll cover next.<\/p>\n<p>Note the hearts, too. There are many more posts with hearts that I&#8217;ll cover separately.<\/p>\n<p>This first dinner will happen when the girls and I are away (girls in Canada, me in Napa golfing with Rich for a few days). Andrea doesn&#8217;t suggest in any of her texts that I am gone, which might leave Jack with the impression that her going out to dinner with him is known and acceptable to me.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1114221.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-613\" title=\"11\/14\/22\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1114221-173x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"173\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1114221-173x300.png 173w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1114221-590x1024.png 590w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1114221.png 808w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 173px) 100vw, 173px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112022.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-614\" title=\"11\/20\/22\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112022-205x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"205\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112022-205x300.png 205w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112022-700x1024.png 700w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112022.png 778w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 205px) 100vw, 205px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-1.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-615\" title=\"11\/21\/22 part 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-1-185x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"185\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-1-185x300.png 185w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-1-634x1024.png 634w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-1.png 782w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 185px) 100vw, 185px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-2.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-616\" title=\"11\/21\/22 part 2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-2-208x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"208\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-2-208x300.png 208w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-2-712x1024.png 712w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112122-part-2.png 778w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 208px) 100vw, 208px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>On Thanksgiving night Andrea catered with Jack (I had dinner as usual with Jenny and Russell). The Friday after Thanksgiving Jack suggests dinner again, even at his place. Accompanied by another heart.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112522-part-1.png\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-617\" title=\"11\/25\/22 part 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112522-part-1-268x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"268\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112522-part-1-268x300.png 268w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112522-part-1.png 774w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 268px) 100vw, 268px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112522-part-2.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-618\" title=\"11\/25\/22 part 2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112522-part-2-158x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"158\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112522-part-2-158x300.png 158w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112522-part-2-541x1024.png 541w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112522-part-2.png 780w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 158px) 100vw, 158px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And another&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112622.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-619\" title=\"11\/26\/22\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112622-300x262.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"262\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112622-300x262.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/112622.png 776w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And another&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12722-dinner.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-620\" title=\"12\/7\/22 dinner\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12722-dinner-229x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"229\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12722-dinner-229x300.png 229w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12722-dinner.png 772w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 229px) 100vw, 229px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And another&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/121222-Dinner.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-621\" title=\"12\/12\/22 Dinner\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/121222-Dinner-300x264.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"264\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/121222-Dinner-300x264.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/121222-Dinner.png 786w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/121522.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-622\" title=\"12\/15\/22\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/121522-300x222.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"222\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/121522-300x222.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/121522.png 756w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And another&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/122122-before-Carson-skin.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-623\" title=\"12\/21\/22 (before Carson skin)\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/122122-before-Carson-skin-300x270.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/122122-before-Carson-skin-300x270.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/122122-before-Carson-skin.png 776w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And another&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/122222-after-Carson-skin.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-624\" title=\"12\/22\/22 (after Carson skin)\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/122222-after-Carson-skin-300x163.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"163\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/122222-after-Carson-skin-300x163.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/122222-after-Carson-skin.png 770w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And another&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1323-Dinner.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-625\" title=\"1\/3\/23 Dinner\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1323-Dinner-300x127.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"127\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1323-Dinner-300x127.png 300w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1323-Dinner.png 770w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And another&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1723-Dinner.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-626\" title=\"1\/7\/23 Dinner\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1723-Dinner-262x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"262\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1723-Dinner-262x300.png 262w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1723-Dinner.png 776w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 262px) 100vw, 262px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>With this dinner, on Wednesday January 25 2023, you see the lie that Andrea tells me: she&#8217;s going to Truckee to speak with the Lumber folks about our kitchen remodel. First, the texts to Jack:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner-I.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-627\" title=\"1\/25\/23 Dinner I\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner-I-210x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"210\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner-I-210x300.png 210w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner-I-719x1024.png 719w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner-I.png 776w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 210px) 100vw, 210px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Followed by a post-dinner text (&#8220;an amazing super mom and super sexy&#8221;), followed by the hearts. The note to Elko will be addressed in another post.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner.-II.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-628\" title=\"1\/25\/23 Dinner. II\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner.-II-176x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"176\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner.-II-176x300.png 176w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner.-II-601x1024.png 601w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Dinner.-II.png 772w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 176px) 100vw, 176px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Here is the text Andrea sent to me about Truckee.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Me.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-629\" title=\"1\/25\/23 Me\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Me-280x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"280\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Me-280x300.jpg 280w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Me-956x1024.jpg 956w, https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/12523-Me.jpeg 1170w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 280px) 100vw, 280px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When Andrea got home, she told the girls and I that she had gotten a quick dinner at Burger Me in Truckee.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Yet another affair - Christmas\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeofannika.com\/blog\/?p=632\" target=\"_blank\">Next<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Previous In addition to coffee dates, there were a lot of references to having dinner (although it looks like they weren&#8217;t able to have many dinners together). 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