Genesis

As the name lifeofannika implies, Annika was to be, for different reasons, the (an) only child.This was my decision, my intent, my desire; once she was born I never entertained another narrative.  But then it suddenly came to me in December 2006 during a trip to Europe with Annika’s good friend Dylan: what about Annika’s desire?  There wasn’t any hesitation on my part; I realized Annika would thrive with a sibling. This life changing decision – for Annika – was the obvious revelation which had escaped me thus far.  For the first time I thought about the reality of being an only child from Annika’s perspective.  Duh.

Less than 12 months later, a sister – no, that would be too easy! – 2 sisters arrived.  Annika was almost 5 years old, and like an adult she immediately adopted them as her responsibility.  In the 2 years since she has acted consistently with a level of unselfishness, compassion, and nurturing that has continued to surprise me.

This certainly won’t last – you can’t expect continued angelic behavior from a young girl as her sisters get bigger and more independent (stubborn), but watching the interactions of these 3 is really such a treat.