February, 2010

A week in the life of a 6-7 year old

Monday – School at Kings Beach (9-3:15); pick-up (usually by Lily’s Mom Vali) and off to Ballet; home.

Tuesday – School; home.

Wednesday – School; home.

Thursday – School (until 12:30); Mighty Mights (until 4); home.

Friday – School; Strider Gliders; home.

Saturday – open.

Sunday – Mountain Camp (Squaw), 8:45 – 3:15; home.

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Genesis

As the name lifeofannika implies, Annika was to be, for different reasons, the (an) only child.This was my decision, my intent, my desire; once she was born I never entertained another narrative.  But then it suddenly came to me in December 2006 during a trip to Europe with Annika’s good friend Dylan: what about Annika’s desire?  There wasn’t any hesitation on my part; I realized Annika would thrive with a sibling. This life changing decision – for Annika – was the obvious revelation which had escaped me thus far.  For the first time I thought about the reality of being an only child from Annika’s perspective.  Duh.

Less than 12 months later, a sister – no, that would be too easy! – 2 sisters arrived.  Annika was almost 5 years old, and like an adult she immediately adopted them as her responsibility.  In the 2 years since she has acted consistently with a level of unselfishness, compassion, and nurturing that has continued to surprise me.

This certainly won’t last – you can’t expect continued angelic behavior from a young girl as her sisters get bigger and more independent (stubborn), but watching the interactions of these 3 is really such a treat.

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