The ever elusive apology

Thursday, Oct 13.

4:15   Andrea and the girls arrive home
4:30  Andrea leaves to see Marti at the HOA beach; she says she’ll be home in ~90 minutes
6:30  Andrea texts, says she’ll be home in 30 minutes
7:15   The girls are hungry; Andrea had asked me earlier in the day to take out some hamburger, but I’m not sure what her plan was. I throw together some pasta and fish sticks
7:45   Andrea arrives home; girls are having dinner. She tells a few details of her evening at the beach with Marti
8:30   The girls are in bed. I mention to Andrea that I wasn’t sure what her plans were for making dinner – thinking she might correct me, and note that I had mis-understood, that she wasn’t expecting to be home for dinner and so was expecting me to make dinner. No response. I say “I was caught off guard so just made some quick pasta and fish sticks”. “Hmmm”, she says. And goes downstairs.